MAA-2

Maa, the woman of my life, She departed in 1994 but she still remains in my heart, whenever I achieve something my first remembrance to her cos I know how she should have felt if I told her about this success. It is being 17 year the memories of many things have faded but she still lives here where she was in 1994 and before... I have kept a big room in my heart for her so whenever I have to tell her I just go to her and speak with her and she also does the same, whenever she wants to say something, she just whispers it my ears.... I am happy that I have chosen her and she had accepted me... LOVE YOU Maa..

THE COP

An asset of a critique

Ignored by his family

Joke of Films,

Target of media,

Lured by riches,

Abused by public

Hated by politicians

Berated by their seniors,

Feared by children,

Isolated by society,

Sulks every moment,

handicapped by judiciary,

blamed by advocates,

left by colleagues,

faces danger for unknowns,

Challenged when act,

Shamed when does not,

Stoned when mob,

Suspended/Dismissed for other's happiness,

WHO IS HE ??

It is 'me' - A COP......

Salutes you....

MEDITATION / "DHAYAN"-

While I was on morning walk, I used to hear people talking about their business activities while passing them or when they cross me. During this I have realized that most of the people talk about land/plot/ house and their sale – purchase dealing. Some of the people have their ear phone and listen something from their mobile phones. Some young girls and boys talk through that for longer hours. I always prefer to walk  either alone not lonely or with Reena -my wife. I remember when I start walking initially I used to recite ‘Mrityuanjay Mantra’ for one circle of walk and in rest of the circles I used to think something or many things.

Today after dropping Orian at his school while I was walking in park, suddenly I started thinking about nothing and my mind just started controlling the flow of thoughts which usually shower like rain drops on every step. The process was just so natural that I had done nothing to achieve that. The thought of controlling the flow was come from  the thought of "Sri Mad Bhagwat Geeta". I was thinking about the free flow of thoughts with the speed of light and real warrior controls the flow of thoughts with control over the attached feelings i.e. anger, happiness, delights, sorrow, celebration, mourn. At that moment I had realised that MEDITATION / “DHAYAN”is related with this feeling.

MEDITATION / “DHAYAN” emerges from our attention over one emotion/thought i.e. allowing the thought/ emotion to remain for long hour in our mind and soul. It shall be given time to allow to grind clockwise and anti clock wise and let that be crushed like a thin sand and than extract the juice from it. This juice is the nectar emerged from the process of dhayan.

As a human being we are always in thinking mode and when we think we always think in tons and ton. But If we have to achieve the dhayan than we must give an enough space to a thought only than it would progress. It will develop in an environment where it would get enough space for spreading. MEDITATION / “DHAYAN” is providing that space to that particular thought. In that moment of thought no one else exists except the yogi and his thought. It is an interaction between the Karta and thought. The thought become alive and takes a shape and started knowing the reason of its existence.

MEDITATION / “DHAYAN” assists in knowing the logic behind the thought like reason of its birth and emerging. MEDITATION / “DHAYAN” is a dam to control the flow and keep storage of thoughts and emotions. It allows the process in a manner where one can understand and check each thought to allow in systematic manner. The life of yogi is  based on theory of half filled glass so she/he has to take care of that part by assigning space to immortal emotions.

We all have to understand that It is not asking to stop thinking rather telling to know what you think so that each thought when emerge from you, can take a proper shape and progress in your own interest as well for the welfare of universe.

All inventions are emerged from MEDITATION / “DHAYAN” because the thinkers have given them a shape and space for progress.

Think if it was not done than how a life would be…..!!

Validation and Recognition

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Validation and recognition

We get weak and weaken when we think about the reaction of other people. That times our emotion and process of thought gets slave by other comments and views. We forget to live in our body and start living a life which has no meaning for us or has temporary phase in our life. Making happy everyone is arduous rather impossible task. We are not here to do so. The life given to us is not of a door mat. It has power to deny and accept what it desires to do so. Our thoughts /emotions make an impact over the others in short as well as in long spell of life. One should not here to make everyone happy and satisfied. Even GOD- the Almighty would try to do so, he would not succeed in doing so. People will piss off you when you would go ahead or criticize you when you would move fast. They would not stay for you nor motivate you if you are slow. They may pull your leg when you are walking aside. This is their way of understanding the things. They may threaten you to leave you alone if you dare to do any of acts as mentioned above so now the question in front of one is that what one shall do? The answer is as old as this universe; just walk on your way because it would be a temporary phase of life. The certain and permanent phase is just walk with your own pace and desired speed because that is set by none other than your emotions/ thoughts and the almighty has favored the same in your own interest.

Always remember that the this world is beautiful and the people here are good and lovable only if you know your worth....

THE DILEMMA OF LIFE

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In our life we all go through a phase where we are given a choice to stay at the certain level where it is called "settled"... “ALCHEMIST” one of my favorite book written by Mr. Paulo Coelho mentions this phase as an important part of life of his main character. The story actually takes shape when Santiago - the character became self-sufficient while working as glass seller/ tea seller. He had enough money to buy herd of sheep's and he could stay/settle at that place to develop his business. He was given the choice either to follow his dream i.e. to go to Egypt and find the treasure or be happy and settled at that place. This type of situation is always remained with us. While working over something we become so much indulge with the things around us, we just forget that our actual dream is still far from achieving it. We become used to receive happiness from temporary comforts, luxuries and multiple small and short sight successes that we generally miss the purpose of life without realizing the meaning and purpose of life till we reach at our last step of journey. At that time we pretend that we remained busy with commitments, fulfilling promises, taking care of our beloved ones that is why we had to sacrifice the actual purpose for them. We start playing blame games in front of our creator- our best friend, we may blame him too for this mismanaged programs of gifted life. Santiago could do the same on the pretext of one or other, in the name of his father who gave him  some gold piece, or that old shop keeper who trusted him more than himself or in the name of settlement of his own life. That journey could well be avoided and wish for search of treasure could be left unfulfilled but what he did was actual "karma" without thinking about present status or future success/ failure he just focused on his journey for his own salvation....

Life tells the same to every one, to us as well. The only need to response back with open mind and inner strength.
Are we ready?

I CAN NOT CHANGE THIS WORLD

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I CAN NOT CHANGE THIS WORLD

-I get confused when people while sitting in parties on comfortable sofa, say that this world is getting spoiled day by day and no one does anything for saving. It is a selfish world which is dying every day due to this attitude of public.

-     I know that I can’t change the world but I can spread a smile over the sad face, I can create a chain of happiness in the world, I can go beyond the boundary to tell my neighbors that I love them and I care for them, I can take my child to park and play with him to see him happy as I know he is waiting too long for this, I can paint a scene for him describing him as sun/ light of my life, I can go and walk in park, wishing good luck and smiley hi to all I see them,

I can’t change the world but I can become a part of greater smile/ happiness and aura of positive energy…

WHAT BLOODY LOVE TO DO WITH SILLY LIFE

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What bloody love to do with silly life...

  Life is completed when we are deeply in love, when one forget and start keeping bitterness things away only then he can live it to complete. To live fully one must live each and every moment of life because whatever we are having now is slipping like sand from our fist so there shall not be any delay to enjoy this moment. Love can bring best in us. Love makes us a better person and good human being. It works as miracle to us and give strength for inner soul too. Many decisions which may call a absurd by intellectual become part of a lover. The love helps us to know this emotional aspect of one side. The lover takes risky decisions and fights well if required to protect his /her love. Furthermore it gives the patience and tolerance to forget and forgive all bitterness of life. One becomes choosy when in love that not to choose anger, anxieties, hatred.

That is why love in life is close to soul and god .........

DAILY LIFE

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Speaking with good souls is a good experience and life time learning. Sometimes all of us get opportunity to know and understand what they have meant to speak in their plain simple words. We all have purpose to live and to walk tirelessly on the destined path. Without understanding the truth about the phases we will not able to make any difference in our own life. We all learn from different experience and styles of walking.. Everything learn in this life as important as oxygen to our body. The actual game which we learn is the simplicity of life lies in today. But we always scare to share with other as they may mock us over the issue. playing a game is like experiencing the inner side of oneself. The person comes out in open w/o realizing that he is exposed to every one that is why a child can play better than an adult. Life gives and goes to best player or a player who has played with true spirit. The game may go to winner but essence goes to only those who play w/o fear of losing or winning. Only ‘karma’ helps us to understand the meaning of true warrior. The true warrior never plays any game in bad light or half hearted. Whatever he plays , it has his heart and dedication in it. The taste of sweat is good when taste after the serious unending fight. The happiness can be understood after the deep pain in soul. When we play and we feel that the win is being gifted to us in a tray, we don’t enjoy it. The taste of win is good when the pain of wounds are high. I am good and I am the best but I know that soon I am going to meet a better person in my life then we should get up and celebrate this meeting and feel lucky for chosen one. The true warrior can only be tested in the time when things are against him. he may pick to remain in action with anger or can initiate the fight calmly with focus and visionary attitude. the fight brings best in true warrior and he know it that is why when he is called for this fight he will obey the inner voice given as the gift from god. he knows that the decision of this war is destiny point of his life and will decide his onwards journey….

GOD IN US

Some times in life when we feel lonely and broken due to some betrayal or trust breaching by our beloved ones, the moment of life becomes dull and start taking the toll of our energy, we think that at this moment that no one is there to love us and even the tears from eyes are drier than thought. The death seems to be an easy prey and life becomes a spider-web. The eyes get burning and cries becomes a surviving thing in life then we must remember that in this life there is much to know yet and that could be possible only successfully passing through this phase of pain. We must take care of our pain by self and that would transform us in new avatar. We could feel and see what is hidden in us-  The God. I have seen people feeling it through pain, disloyalty, defeat, deceit and broken promises. The feeling of self esteem sometimes is at such a low point where it is even un-notice. Always know in life, only the god and his messengers have such a heart where they end their pain by winning their pain. The pain-winner can see what even a godly saint is looking. God in us !! it is truth and feel it when you are at that stage where your pain is tasted like the sweet nectar served through your best friend.  The god in us is like a god in blue denims- dashing, smart, active, energetic and well behaved. Do not afraid of this fact. It is not your liability rather an asset. Do not forget to carry this tag with smile on your face but remember with great power there lies the greatest responsibilities. Remember it and behave accordingly. You can not live like a loser more. Now smile and accept what is served and offered to you. Gracefully re-enter in the life-zone and live it completely w/o any regret or grudge. Always know a god in us will lead us to a place where we will not be same as before and would not remain the same in future. It is a shining path of self-reflection with image of god present in us.

DANCE

 

Dance is the true form of prayer to reach god and mankind. It changes one's perspective view towards the destiny and reaching at 'Lakshya'. Since the beginning of life it is related with happiness, laugh, celebration, victory, affection and love therefore it has become a thought and then habit. The quality of life  and personality depends on the essence of truthfulness and positive attitude. Dance does the same to you. It keeps you away from negativity of life and sad feelings. Before understanding it I was unaware about the importance but once I understood it, my personality progressed, I have got many friends and fans in my life. the life was never the same. My depression about my status got vanished. I was the richest man on this earth. I never felt small after this. I became famous, energetic and lovable. My anger towards me went away. I have started in believing in me. I knew an art, an art which can help you to realize your dream. I knew I could get what I want. I became a charming happy-go-lucky dude with cool attitude and style. I can feel my aura and aroma and its effect over the people around me. Dance has become a language which I could speak so fluently that I do not have to think before. A mode of communication for others and for me. I am happy I have chosen the best art.

The Crab Thoery n its fall-out

The Crab Thoery
 by Arun Sharma on Tuesday, September 13, 2011 at 10:34pm
 

Some people do not believe in winning they just know that they are here to play spoil sports so that the happy ones/ lovers should not enjoy the game.. Their motive is only to pull back those who understand the rules and better player of life. Never in their life they play in the interest of people .. Even god sometimes when try to show the strength of love.. They fight back in such a manner as their life is snatched... Lose and win are the part of their life... They play with this spirit.. They don't understand what that mean when the term win-win is told to them...due to this sometimes when they get little succes in life they don't feel happy rather haphzard becos the thing which they get hardly stays with them for long....

Some people would act like crab, decide what you want to be, one of them or some one else.

Forget and forgive them, they never exist in this world...

FEW INDIAN FILMS WHICH I LOVE TO WATCH

DO BIGHA JAMEEN- ( Balraj Sahni) I still remember that movie which I saw while I was 8 yrs old only.. A Story of survival in world.

WAQT- (Balraj Sahni, Raj Kumar, Sunil Dutt, Shashi Kapoor, Sharmila) I don’t know but I relate myself with this movie.

DASTAN- (Dalip Kumar, Bindu, Prem Chopra) Story about sibling rivalry, betrayal, broken and lost love. 

KARZ- (Rishi, Simmi, Pran, Premnath,Tina) tells a positive thought about to survive after death if u wish to..

ANAND- (Rajesh Khanna, Amitabh Bachchan) tells  to live a life king size.. 
JAGTE RAHO- ( Raj Kapoor, Moti Lal) A thirsty villager in urban society.
PURAB AUR PASCHIM- Manoj, Saira, Prem Chpora, Ashok Kumar, Asit Sen, Madan Puri) tells about love for customs, tradition and motherland.

GUIDE- ( Dev Anand, Wahida, Anwar Hussain) helps us to know about ourselves....

YADON KI BARAT-  (Dharmendra, Zeenat, Ajit ) keeps the hope of reunification with our loved ones...

ARADHANA - (Rajesh Khanna, Sharmila) tells about meeting with your soul mate again.
BACHPAN- (Sanjiv kumar)The love for children in father's heart.

ABHIMAN- (Amitabh, Jaya, David)says that true love has no place for false ego..

DEEWAR- (Amitabh, Shashi, Parveen Bobby, Iftikhar)says about the one does not have choice to choose right or wrong.

SHOLAY- (Amitabh, dharmendra, Hema, Jaya, Sanjiv, Amzad,)  tells about the a true warrior..

CHUPKE-CHUPKE- (Amitabh, dharmendra, Sharmila, Om Prakash Jaya) tells about the simplicity of life lies in normal living.

PAROSAN (Padosan)-  (Sunil Dutt, Saira, Kishor) tells about the innocent’s manipulation for finding love.

JHUK GAYA AASMAN- (Rajender Kumar, Saira, David, Prem Chopra) tells about changing fate through karma.

MAIN AZAD HU- ( Amitabh Bachchan) tells that even a lay man can change the system. (ANNA Effect)

ARDH SATYA- (Om Puri, Smita) tells about the stress and emotional breakdown among cops.

GHAYAL- (Sunny Deol, Meenakshi, Amrish puri, Raj babbar)tells about the search and revenge.
JO JEETA WOHI SIKANDAR- (Aamir Khan) A boy'story of coming back in family

ARJUNA-  (Sunny Deol, Dimple) tells about nexus between politicians.

BHOOT- (Urmila, Ajay Devgun) tells about the bad karma that follows till hell.

QURBAAN- ( Kareena, Saif, OmPuri, Kiron Kher) tells the fantasies of a terrorist.

NEWYORK-  ( John Abraham, Katrina, Neil) tells about aftermath of 9/11.

KAL HO NA HO-  (Shahrukh, Priti, Saif) tells about happiness in living normal.

SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE- tells about hit the bull with a stone.

OM SHANTI OM- ( Shahrukh, Deepika) tells about  follow the dream.

KABHI ALVIDA NA KAHNA- (Sharukh, Amitabh, Abhishek, Rani, Priti) tells about unification with self.
KAHANI- ( Vidya Balan) A story about the power of woman.
GOLMAAL- ( Utpal Dutt, Amol Palekar) The mustache man with twin mothers
GOLMAAL-Ist(New)- ( Ajay Devgun, Paresh, Tushar) The blind couple with four musketeers.
TALAASH-  (Aamir Khan, Kareena) A cop with remorse and sad past.
SMART HUNT- ( Kamal Hasan) The serial killers on run from India to US and then follow the cop who is after them.
OMG- ( Paresh, Akshay Mithun) Even God is here to prove himself.
EK HASINA THI- (Urmila, Saif)A weak girl with unbreakable strength.
ROCKSTAR-  (Ranbir Kapoor) Pain is the destiny.
ZINDAGI NA MILEGI DOBARA- (Hritik, Farhan, Abhay,) Live life like flowing river.
Chachi 420- ( Kamal Hasaan, Ompuri, Tabu, Amrish Puri, Paresh) A better cousin of Mrs. Doubt fire)

Contd…

 

Soul in Machine....

Bikes are "LOVE-BIRDS"wherever they go they create a new story about passion, romance and love. Throughout the life, I always remain in love with them. I always want them to part of my emotions and heart. A day w/o them is emptiness in life and difficult. From the beginning of my life I got fascinated with them and wanted to ride as much as possible. I still remember my first bike i.e. DBW-1783. It was an IND-SUZUKI bike with red color. It was like a bride in red. I got red color seat cover as well as red helmet. I took some part of money from Reena for buying it. I rode it in city and feel like dating with my beloved. It was a date with dream-lover. Thereafter we lived together and then after sometime decided to progress in different worlds. After her, I tried to live with some scooties but none compared with my love and ultimately met my love again with its reincarnation in new body and shape of ENTICER-YAMAHA. I got her little makeover and we both lived in the world of LOVE and only LOVE. With the passage of time, I had let her to go for better life. I feel that the search for love shall never be stopped and now my love has re-entered in my life with a new name- FAZER-YAMAHA. Now we both live in each other company as long as possible.....

THANK YOU....

A true form of prayer lies in feeling obliged for whatever one has been served with. The initial resources and logistic support i.e. air, water, light, plants, food, mountain, flowers are provided to us by one and only i.e. God. The god has given us this beautiful life of our own choice. He further gives opportunity to us to get merged with him. That is why we belong to him. We are his children. Remembering him through prayer is like thanking him for all his favors to us. On going further in this life we know and understand various forms of emotions shared through experiences. Some of the emotions are co-related with other things exist in our life. Love is one of them. It is bold when shares with others. Love can be significant if someone exists otherwise it is a symbol of thought. In one of Tom Hanks’ movie in which he was left deserted at an island. To kill his loneliness, he made a wood piece face shape and named him, treated him as buddy/friend. After spending four years in exile, one day he made a make-shift boat and took his buddy along for coming out of that Island. During the journey when he got tired and discovered that the waves had taken away his buddy to the open sea. He tried to swam to get back him in his boat. He even swam to the last corner of his rope just to rescue it but failed in his attempt. He wept like a mad man and felt sorry for his failure. This emotional piece was an example of thanking the thing for its company in his exile period. We all have someone like this in our life. We always feel that the time is sufficient to feel grateful and we can do it tomorrow, without noticing it that it might happen that the moment never reaches to us and may lost in the big sea of humans.

Thanking someone is like singing a prayer to the person who has understood the meaning of giving.

I would like to thank to all my teachers/parents/ mentors as despite being a tough nut/ difficult learner, They worked over me to make what I am today...

In continuation I thank all my friends as they have accepted me as a friend despite my many short comings. Thank you all….))

aks - The Reflection: HERO- RAMA/ KRISHNA

aks - The Reflection: HERO- RAMA/ KRISHNA: HERO- RAMA/ KRISHNA by Arun Sharma on Tuesday, October 18, 2011 at 8:36pm Sometimes or most of the times this question comes into my mind ...