“I want your sex” was the song by George Michael which I heard in my
college days. It was mentioning all the good things about having sex.
The singer was trying to influence his lover to have sex with him. That
song was one of my favorite and I heard it many times as talking about
sex was a taboo especially when someone expressed his wish to do so. It
was like low quality stuff talk. I have remembered at that time the song was
banned by BBC radio due to its word “SE*”. In India we did not hear it
on radio. I still remember a song in Hindi called as “SEXY” was replaced
with “chikni (चिकनी)” word (I find this word more vulnerable than sexy)
but there is a change and now day’s people openly express their views
about it. At least we do not see much botheration if someone expresses about wanting it from willing one.
What a man wants from a woman or what women desire from men is not a secret topic. A sex is wonderful act of appreciation between the two individuals. It is sacred or sinful it is depend on their understanding. An act which is acceptable by souls is sacred and if denounce by even one of them then it becomes sinful. Sex is what when an emotion is converted into action of bodies is sacred and when bodies force to create an emotion in it then it is sinful. A good chocolate is not eaten with teeth rather it melts in mouth with grace. Sex is like this if done while taking care about pleasure of hard and wet organs then it is untimely, tiring, routine, boring and incomplete and if done with soft melting of emotions with warm feelings then it is heavenly, energizes, freshen and fully complete. It is an experience which is like remaining outside of your own bodies and seeing self. It is a feeling of having two heads- self and lover’s head on your own single body.
A man who lives in world when realizes the importance of fulfilling the emotion through his actions, he understands the importance of other person’s in life. Sex is like any action which is directed by an emotion only then the body participates. A tensed emotional charged body refuses to answer this call despite the best opportunity of doing it with best one. Sex starts with soul leads bodies to responds and again concludes with soul. That is why it is fearless when souls respond this nature’s call. Do all we enjoy this when experimenting or experiencing it? The sex is only responsive when it is between the trusts worthy. It is a state of surrender to give an opportunity to lover to rise above you. A sex with stranger or one night stand may give a pleasure for fractions but cannot stand you when any answer is required that is why one night stand does not amount with emotions rather with bodily pleasure. A sex with loved one gives relaxation and not performance oriented. It is not the race or battle to win over the lover. A good sex is like a good dose of breakfast after a good morning work-out. Do it every day and whenever you get the opportunity without any guilt. This time will not stop and nor will come back. You would be left with precious uncounted moments of indulging and experiencing it and countless remorseful slipping moments of missing it.
The best fruits of life are emotion based and remember sex is one of these. Enjoy it with surrender so that it can melt in you and your lover. All the good things in life have led you to experience this sacred angelic act.
Live every sacred moment of it without any sin or shame. May be tomorrow you will have only this experience to carry your emotions to another world.
2 comments:
Laxmi Handa Mehta · Owner at Men's Attire:
I like to say that a person love somebody so why don't they talk to each other instead making different profile can I ask you one q what it means what do a person wish ?
Arun Sharma:
As a human being we live in this world as two individuals. We have initiated progressing with different people and may be in different custom, traditions and faith. We have our own tastes, likes, dislikes, happy moments, sad feelings and so on. The love, which has been progressed through our hearts, brings us together on same platform as we have realized that one of our aim in life is not only to find the love but to achieve it as well. The initial stage has brought feeling of single hood in us like we are not apart, we were never but as we are walking on the same path and together therefore we are discovering the love as well. A love does not conclude to single choice of life rather it makes life full of choices. The discovery helps us to see the world with activeness, alert as well as understanding the colors. Some of them are bright, cheerful, vibrant, energy-givers as well as grey and dark too. We decide our life to decorate with them. Here comes the choice and feeling of expectation. Do we act as we expect? A love does not create a door mat nor should it. When inner of us is so much contradiction then how can a love w/o contradiction or arguments. Here comes the ego. We do not live our inner sides to get scuffle with each other. We immediately find the peace point. It happens cause no one is there to see the defeated or victor but in love we find so many audience that breaks the communication. Who wins or who loses, does not matter in love because the victor in such circumstances is as lonely as the loser. Achieve love that would lead you find the truth in you-self. A lover is neither a door mat nor a towel use after the bath and throws on some ground w/o looking second time. A lover is a soul too and that has all emotions of happiness, celebrations, joys, cheering, as well as arguments, contradictions and fights. Have the happiness and have patience to bear the pain as well. The love would blossom even in autumn.
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