GOD IN US

Some times in life when we feel lonely and broken due to some betrayal or trust breaching by our beloved ones, the moment of life becomes dull and start taking the toll of our energy, we think that at this moment that no one is there to love us and even the tears from eyes are drier than thought. The death seems to be an easy prey and life becomes a spider-web. The eyes get burning and cries becomes a surviving thing in life then we must remember that in this life there is much to know yet and that could be possible only successfully passing through this phase of pain. We must take care of our pain by self and that would transform us in new avatar. We could feel and see what is hidden in us-  The God. I have seen people feeling it through pain, disloyalty, defeat, deceit and broken promises. The feeling of self esteem sometimes is at such a low point where it is even un-notice. Always know in life, only the god and his messengers have such a heart where they end their pain by winning their pain. The pain-winner can see what even a godly saint is looking. God in us !! it is truth and feel it when you are at that stage where your pain is tasted like the sweet nectar served through your best friend.  The god in us is like a god in blue denims- dashing, smart, active, energetic and well behaved. Do not afraid of this fact. It is not your liability rather an asset. Do not forget to carry this tag with smile on your face but remember with great power there lies the greatest responsibilities. Remember it and behave accordingly. You can not live like a loser more. Now smile and accept what is served and offered to you. Gracefully re-enter in the life-zone and live it completely w/o any regret or grudge. Always know a god in us will lead us to a place where we will not be same as before and would not remain the same in future. It is a shining path of self-reflection with image of god present in us.

DANCE

 

Dance is the true form of prayer to reach god and mankind. It changes one's perspective view towards the destiny and reaching at 'Lakshya'. Since the beginning of life it is related with happiness, laugh, celebration, victory, affection and love therefore it has become a thought and then habit. The quality of life  and personality depends on the essence of truthfulness and positive attitude. Dance does the same to you. It keeps you away from negativity of life and sad feelings. Before understanding it I was unaware about the importance but once I understood it, my personality progressed, I have got many friends and fans in my life. the life was never the same. My depression about my status got vanished. I was the richest man on this earth. I never felt small after this. I became famous, energetic and lovable. My anger towards me went away. I have started in believing in me. I knew an art, an art which can help you to realize your dream. I knew I could get what I want. I became a charming happy-go-lucky dude with cool attitude and style. I can feel my aura and aroma and its effect over the people around me. Dance has become a language which I could speak so fluently that I do not have to think before. A mode of communication for others and for me. I am happy I have chosen the best art.

The Crab Thoery n its fall-out

The Crab Thoery
 by Arun Sharma on Tuesday, September 13, 2011 at 10:34pm
 

Some people do not believe in winning they just know that they are here to play spoil sports so that the happy ones/ lovers should not enjoy the game.. Their motive is only to pull back those who understand the rules and better player of life. Never in their life they play in the interest of people .. Even god sometimes when try to show the strength of love.. They fight back in such a manner as their life is snatched... Lose and win are the part of their life... They play with this spirit.. They don't understand what that mean when the term win-win is told to them...due to this sometimes when they get little succes in life they don't feel happy rather haphzard becos the thing which they get hardly stays with them for long....

Some people would act like crab, decide what you want to be, one of them or some one else.

Forget and forgive them, they never exist in this world...

FEW INDIAN FILMS WHICH I LOVE TO WATCH

DO BIGHA JAMEEN- ( Balraj Sahni) I still remember that movie which I saw while I was 8 yrs old only.. A Story of survival in world.

WAQT- (Balraj Sahni, Raj Kumar, Sunil Dutt, Shashi Kapoor, Sharmila) I don’t know but I relate myself with this movie.

DASTAN- (Dalip Kumar, Bindu, Prem Chopra) Story about sibling rivalry, betrayal, broken and lost love. 

KARZ- (Rishi, Simmi, Pran, Premnath,Tina) tells a positive thought about to survive after death if u wish to..

ANAND- (Rajesh Khanna, Amitabh Bachchan) tells  to live a life king size.. 
JAGTE RAHO- ( Raj Kapoor, Moti Lal) A thirsty villager in urban society.
PURAB AUR PASCHIM- Manoj, Saira, Prem Chpora, Ashok Kumar, Asit Sen, Madan Puri) tells about love for customs, tradition and motherland.

GUIDE- ( Dev Anand, Wahida, Anwar Hussain) helps us to know about ourselves....

YADON KI BARAT-  (Dharmendra, Zeenat, Ajit ) keeps the hope of reunification with our loved ones...

ARADHANA - (Rajesh Khanna, Sharmila) tells about meeting with your soul mate again.
BACHPAN- (Sanjiv kumar)The love for children in father's heart.

ABHIMAN- (Amitabh, Jaya, David)says that true love has no place for false ego..

DEEWAR- (Amitabh, Shashi, Parveen Bobby, Iftikhar)says about the one does not have choice to choose right or wrong.

SHOLAY- (Amitabh, dharmendra, Hema, Jaya, Sanjiv, Amzad,)  tells about the a true warrior..

CHUPKE-CHUPKE- (Amitabh, dharmendra, Sharmila, Om Prakash Jaya) tells about the simplicity of life lies in normal living.

PAROSAN (Padosan)-  (Sunil Dutt, Saira, Kishor) tells about the innocent’s manipulation for finding love.

JHUK GAYA AASMAN- (Rajender Kumar, Saira, David, Prem Chopra) tells about changing fate through karma.

MAIN AZAD HU- ( Amitabh Bachchan) tells that even a lay man can change the system. (ANNA Effect)

ARDH SATYA- (Om Puri, Smita) tells about the stress and emotional breakdown among cops.

GHAYAL- (Sunny Deol, Meenakshi, Amrish puri, Raj babbar)tells about the search and revenge.
JO JEETA WOHI SIKANDAR- (Aamir Khan) A boy'story of coming back in family

ARJUNA-  (Sunny Deol, Dimple) tells about nexus between politicians.

BHOOT- (Urmila, Ajay Devgun) tells about the bad karma that follows till hell.

QURBAAN- ( Kareena, Saif, OmPuri, Kiron Kher) tells the fantasies of a terrorist.

NEWYORK-  ( John Abraham, Katrina, Neil) tells about aftermath of 9/11.

KAL HO NA HO-  (Shahrukh, Priti, Saif) tells about happiness in living normal.

SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE- tells about hit the bull with a stone.

OM SHANTI OM- ( Shahrukh, Deepika) tells about  follow the dream.

KABHI ALVIDA NA KAHNA- (Sharukh, Amitabh, Abhishek, Rani, Priti) tells about unification with self.
KAHANI- ( Vidya Balan) A story about the power of woman.
GOLMAAL- ( Utpal Dutt, Amol Palekar) The mustache man with twin mothers
GOLMAAL-Ist(New)- ( Ajay Devgun, Paresh, Tushar) The blind couple with four musketeers.
TALAASH-  (Aamir Khan, Kareena) A cop with remorse and sad past.
SMART HUNT- ( Kamal Hasan) The serial killers on run from India to US and then follow the cop who is after them.
OMG- ( Paresh, Akshay Mithun) Even God is here to prove himself.
EK HASINA THI- (Urmila, Saif)A weak girl with unbreakable strength.
ROCKSTAR-  (Ranbir Kapoor) Pain is the destiny.
ZINDAGI NA MILEGI DOBARA- (Hritik, Farhan, Abhay,) Live life like flowing river.
Chachi 420- ( Kamal Hasaan, Ompuri, Tabu, Amrish Puri, Paresh) A better cousin of Mrs. Doubt fire)

Contd…

 

Soul in Machine....

Bikes are "LOVE-BIRDS"wherever they go they create a new story about passion, romance and love. Throughout the life, I always remain in love with them. I always want them to part of my emotions and heart. A day w/o them is emptiness in life and difficult. From the beginning of my life I got fascinated with them and wanted to ride as much as possible. I still remember my first bike i.e. DBW-1783. It was an IND-SUZUKI bike with red color. It was like a bride in red. I got red color seat cover as well as red helmet. I took some part of money from Reena for buying it. I rode it in city and feel like dating with my beloved. It was a date with dream-lover. Thereafter we lived together and then after sometime decided to progress in different worlds. After her, I tried to live with some scooties but none compared with my love and ultimately met my love again with its reincarnation in new body and shape of ENTICER-YAMAHA. I got her little makeover and we both lived in the world of LOVE and only LOVE. With the passage of time, I had let her to go for better life. I feel that the search for love shall never be stopped and now my love has re-entered in my life with a new name- FAZER-YAMAHA. Now we both live in each other company as long as possible.....

THANK YOU....

A true form of prayer lies in feeling obliged for whatever one has been served with. The initial resources and logistic support i.e. air, water, light, plants, food, mountain, flowers are provided to us by one and only i.e. God. The god has given us this beautiful life of our own choice. He further gives opportunity to us to get merged with him. That is why we belong to him. We are his children. Remembering him through prayer is like thanking him for all his favors to us. On going further in this life we know and understand various forms of emotions shared through experiences. Some of the emotions are co-related with other things exist in our life. Love is one of them. It is bold when shares with others. Love can be significant if someone exists otherwise it is a symbol of thought. In one of Tom Hanks’ movie in which he was left deserted at an island. To kill his loneliness, he made a wood piece face shape and named him, treated him as buddy/friend. After spending four years in exile, one day he made a make-shift boat and took his buddy along for coming out of that Island. During the journey when he got tired and discovered that the waves had taken away his buddy to the open sea. He tried to swam to get back him in his boat. He even swam to the last corner of his rope just to rescue it but failed in his attempt. He wept like a mad man and felt sorry for his failure. This emotional piece was an example of thanking the thing for its company in his exile period. We all have someone like this in our life. We always feel that the time is sufficient to feel grateful and we can do it tomorrow, without noticing it that it might happen that the moment never reaches to us and may lost in the big sea of humans.

Thanking someone is like singing a prayer to the person who has understood the meaning of giving.

I would like to thank to all my teachers/parents/ mentors as despite being a tough nut/ difficult learner, They worked over me to make what I am today...

In continuation I thank all my friends as they have accepted me as a friend despite my many short comings. Thank you all….))

aks - The Reflection: HERO- RAMA/ KRISHNA

aks - The Reflection: HERO- RAMA/ KRISHNA: HERO- RAMA/ KRISHNA by Arun Sharma on Tuesday, October 18, 2011 at 8:36pm Sometimes or most of the times this question comes into my mind ...

HERO- RAMA/ KRISHNA

HERO- RAMA/ KRISHNA

by Arun Sharma on Tuesday, October 18, 2011 at 8:36pm

Sometimes or most of the times this question comes into my mind that between RAMA and KRISHNA who is first hero .. as I love the character of Krishna very much and it has an impact over my thinking that I have mentioned in my FB profile and read about him, I had also watched the TV serial Maha Bharata and while in Bosnia especially got the cassette of hi Gita  updesh  but there is a little chaos in my mind and that irritates me initially but later on I have realized that the life  of Krishana that he had lived, was not easy but when I look for first hero to be chosen in my mind come out as RAMA and I have tried to reason to understand it...

1. Rama was an elder in his family so everyone looked him as a man of sample and substance... he has to take care of his young siblings as well as to keep them happy and he did that.. He loves his brother and they look to him for favour whether it is Lakshman asking him to go with him for exile or Bharat asked him to give his wooden slippers for keeping them as his memory, he obliged everyone w/o thinking second time.

2. Even when father did not tell him to go for exile he came forwarded and accepted it as blessing from his father.

3.His wife SITA decided to go with him he allowed her to join her and he knew that it would not be safe for her to go with her but he had faith in him and he took her as well.

4. He never used any chariot or horse or anything for fighting with his enemy and always remained on his feet.

5. He loved her step mother Kekai despite she was responsible for sending him for exile.

6. It is a difficult task to form an army in foreign land against a strong opponent and motivate that to go for war after crossing a sea and challenged them at their own place.

7. It is difficult to send his own most beloved pregnant wife for another exile only to show that how a king should behave to satisfy his own public.

8. Sending own brother Lakshmana for exile when he breached the rule set by "kaal- Death".

There are many more examples which set that Rama always  showed that The responsibilities of king are more important for a King and one can not shrug them.

PS. It is just an opinion about both the heroes and and Nothing can compere as both lived in different era and faced different situations. 
IT IS FURTHER TO MENTION THAT I AM FAN OF BOTH HERO'S.
 

"How" is "Why" more relevent to us ?

A good topic that “why” is not as important as “how”. From the early period the civilisation is always interested in knowing the process…the outcome of process is ignored till it comes as surprise. The curiosity is killing and everyone enjoys it. “how” is something related with physical rather body as whatever we do is the process of doing, linked with our own actions and deeds. There are 100 ways of doing so and 101 ways to change so. On the other side the “why” is related with soul… One knows that what purpose he would achieve in doing this. The purpose may be small for one and important for another. it is related with spiritual awareness and alert conscience. ‘how’ can fail someone but ‘why’ will always a winner. I am happy the way ‘how’ I am doing and I am delighted to understand ‘why’ I did do.

Sachin Tendulkar - The God of cricket

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• Arun Sharma  on FB wall of Sachin Tendulkar

I am having a feeling that our sachin 10dulkar is feeling alone and broken after the death of his mentor and that may affect his skills.. let we all realize him that he is not alone and we all care for him.....Top of Form

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Sachin Ramesh Tendulker: The Humble Legend further commented : "Dosto Namaskar, It is nice to see lion hearted fans of Brave heart Sachin. As you all are aware SACHIN is the humble legend of game. Journey of humbleness through his playing attitude is the motto of d page; so please pour your likes & grace d page with your valuable thoughts,The page for all Sachin’s follower is also https://www.facebook.com/pages/Sachin-Ramesh-Tendulker-The-Humble-Legend/142849815787266   "

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The author commented : "Dear Sachin one thing you always remember in life … we all walk over the destined path created by god in order to achieve and understand the purpose of our life. during this journey of love & affection we meet many people and some of them come closer than others and we give them  some names, some calling signs, they remain with us for longer duration so we get attached with them and when their destiny path takes them to far from us we feel bad, really bad, we miss them but the thing which we must remember is this that as our journey is important to us , their journey is equal ant  important to them, till the path remains same we walk together and as it crosses and take us to different direction we move towards that so there is nothing like going far or near , it is all path that is taking us to each other and till it is remained same we remain in each other company and then say good bye and move forward… Life is like this only….. The god has chosen a path for you which is sufficient to explain your destiny to you… be with yourself… it is all written…. And accepted by us…"

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GOD IS A WRITER !!

GOD IS A WRITER

A writer is a free soul who has no shame in going naked in public. It is a dance with lover on the crossing of roads and all naked as well. The emotion which a writer carries does not give time to him to think again. A writer writes first and then thinks later. The time to know his thought is hardly a tab over the key-pad. I know whenever I pick-up pen or start typing, I don’t have anything in mind but once the magic starts than I don’t think, the flow of thoughts lead me freely to the new beginning of unending age of writing. The writer never knows where he should stop thinking as till the peace of mind achieves, he is in full throttle of thoughts.  It is connected with one’s will, desire and lust. A writer is a child stays in his own world of passion, emotions, and principles. It excites one with the tag of no boundary. He comes out of his own body and seeing all incidents as second person. He just wears his own soul and removes everything and accomplishes the assigned task by his soul.  He creates his own world where he keeps his men in chaos, confusion and madness. He loves them to do some foolish acts and take wise decision. He knows where they would crumble by their own emotions and when they would feel the victory. Each emotion describes the mental state of a writer. He put himself to pedestal through his created characters. He makes love and gets blind by the anger. He shows his nepotism, and criticism. He puts them on acid test and then takes back them from death defying situation. He Insults and gets humiliation by his own modes of tools. The madness of his characters describes his nature.

A writer estimates and fixes his limitation over the mind of readers through his way of expressing the emotions. He takes them to contradiction where their mind does it in free flow situation. He concludes the hope in despair and happiness in sorrow. He knows that the right time to press the button of remote control to their minds. He does it beautifully. He keeps his readers in his own world with their free will. Till the last word they become part of writer’s world and then allow them to merge in their own world where they now become character of a big canvas writer-GOD.

What is success / Happiness ?

Success/ Happiness is relatively connected with satisfaction of one’s mind. It is depends on attitude and handling of things. It is also related with emotions, hard work and one’s recognition. There are examples when one getting happy over the matter of some dust and when even the Mount Everest was not sufficient for self. My son Orian , he gets happy with a single good grade in his homework and on the other I know someone who was dissatisfied and disoriented even on getting the major share of booty from ancestral property .  The level is to recognized and understanding of self worth and capabilities be kept in mind while evaluating the concept. It is a running process and shall not be behind the catching of shadow rather fulfilling the life's goal and its accomplishment. Impossible may and shall question but reaching for moon is possible through the rocket not by ladder. 

The Pyjamas Life

by Arun Sharma on Sunday, March 13, 2011 at 4:16am

 it is 4 am in the morning and i have not slept yet...

just thinking if difficulties come into our way we tried to change everything thy could be reason for it... we would like our life to be full of joys n fun... but how long u can stay in fun park/ discotheque/ dance club ultimately u come to ur place where life is simple like a pyjama n t shirt cos u feel comfortable... life should be in ordinary course of nature having all tastes thts make sense to our existence... even god when lived like humans had all sorrows and pains to comprehend human nature n life.... they lived like tht just to assure us tht even human can reach and understand true sense of one being..... seeing is not sufficient to comprehend we must feel it...... tht is the true essence of life..... the real truth.... simple one....

STOP THINKING WHY & START LIVING RIGHT AWAY

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WHY ME AGAIN GOD ?? 

WHY NOT YOU AGAIN, SON...

  Sometimes we have this question in mind that why every time I suffer in life. What sin I have done in my life that the punishment is so high in degree. Am I the step-child of Almighty or he is ignoring me through the life phase.  The situation arises every time when we face a grave situation. I had it my share too. I had a difficult childhood with deprivation of basic things. The life was not easy and every month we went through the situation whether I would be continuing my education or my name would be struck off due to non-payment of school fees. The toys and games attracted me a lot but buying them was a dream. I lived in a single room rented house and always shy of showing it to my friends. That caused me annoyance with the creator and I was not ready to sit for prayer and prayers by my mother seemed to me irritating and unbearable. My graduation result was not declared and it seemed to me that I had flanked in my exams. My English was not good enough so nobody wanted to know what I think or know. My girl-friend left me on my birthday and went with another guy who was riding a bike (The bike was a craze in late 80's). I was not getting the admission in University and I was the only hope for my mother who was waiting for my salary. Things were tough and life was not easy. I had no faith in God and I was totally broken, shaken and lonely. All of a sudden, a light appeared in me and instructed me to follow the path. I surrendered before "SHIVA"and thereafter did not look back. Within a month, I have started earning through tuition and dance classes. I purchased my bike and started living as Paying-Guest. I joined competition classes and got my job in first attempt. Yes, it took another 10 years to call life settled but things became easy and manageable.  This above said situation has led me to understand life, its transformation, purpose and merging of soul with super-soul(GOD). Initially when I had written this subject, it was not in question-answer form but a direct flow of emotions however to connect it with all, I finalized it in this form.    

Q: What is Life and why do we have different life from each other?
Ans: Life is an institute. It is a journey for learning. We don’t live similar life despite twins as we don’t share the destiny, path or success. 

Q: How does we transform? What is its purpose?
Ans: Our soul transform through life. Every soul lives a different meaningful existence to meet his/her counter parts and to merge in super soul i.e. God. The God is complete.  He understands and knows all the tastes of life. He wants us to get check that too. He is very kind towards us and all others. He has a special place for the human beings i.e. us. He takes us close to his own identity but we should remember that all other races/ ethnicities and species feel the same for him. We should understand that no one lives in dark and left alone. The communication which we know is very limited and our knowledge about it poor. We can not speak or understand the language which human use for interaction. We must understand it too that many use sign/ breath/ eyes language too. Even unspoken is heard. God understands all language. The other species also communicate with him through  their movements, vision, looking, breathing or simply speaking. Unfortunately or fortunately we do not have such devices which could record and reproduce their spoken thoughts to us. So when we can not do so how can we claim that we homo-sapiens are close to him than any other species. God do not deprive his creation like he takes care of us, he takes care of other as well. He has created this beautiful world with the rainbow colors and all the colors have their importance. The rain, dust, flowers, plants, animals, nature, mausam, are created to fill different shades to this world. He has created light so we can see and feel that otherwise the world can be created in darkness as well. That is the beauty of life.

In many of our life we may have faced hardships in different times and intervals. Some of us might be living in a small house or in mud hut sharing limited meals and space. For some of us a piece of small cookie/cake is like a life time treat. Some of us might be depriving themselves for the need of their younger sisters/brothers or children. I still remember that in my school days I loved to eat a burger while going for watching a movie at nearer Kino. I started my education from a good reputed school but due to loss in business, my father did not get it continued there and I was shifted to municipality school. My mother who was very keen for my education started doing petty jobs that folding and setting up missal of printed pages of book. Those were the books which I read at the time of beginning of my life. I still remembered that I used them as pillow and mattress several time for afternoon nap. I feel that those unbounded pages have created my interest in books. Somehow I never got good grades in my school tests due to my hand writing. It is still the same. My elder sister and brother used to help her to complete the assigned work in time. I was not allowed to work as my mother wanted me to get education. She was an illiterate woman and understood the importance and impact of books over one’s life. I was always been provided with magazines, new school books. Major portion of money was spending on books of my choice. I used to read while eating, lying in bed or sitting. My friends they knew my habit and they used to give books to me for reading. Sometimes I found myself reading 4/5 books at one time to finish them and returned as soon as possible. It was never my habit rather my compulsion. This has increased my speed of reading. My friends says that I read up to down rather left to right. I never had time to make notes from them I just stored them in one corner of mind. The reading has got me friendly with 5-7 years elders from me. Due to reading I missed many things but know a little.

The hardship of that time had made me bitter as well. I was a solid critic of God and his/her existence. I behaved as negligent juvenile or step child. He left me orphan. I had many complaints against him. The sound of bells of temple and prayers were irritating and intolerable. I still remember when at one of Diwali festival, I made mockery of ‘Aarti’ in the prayers. My mother did not like that but said that one day you (I) would understand the real truth. My parents were highly religious and morning hours they used to pray daily and visit nearest temple. They never forced me to do so as they knew that sooner a light would enter through me to introduce me to my best friend- God.

The life which I was living is one of the examples of many lives. We all have pain and problem in our life. We do mistakes and some are rectified too. We love the people and let them lost as well. We try to hold the things which slip faster than sand from our tight fists. We pretend that we control or remote control everything without realizing that we, our self are part of great big game placed by one and only Almighty.

O: How does god decides our life? What are our choices at the initiation of our life?
Ans: Every life when going to be started, we are called by God. He gives us various options. These options are like a menu-card from which we decide what  and how much quantity we want the particular emotion/circumstance in our life. It may like taking the dishes in a buffet in our respective plate. We are given choices to leave few of them as well. As life is an institute of learning and experiencing new things hence the soul choose all types of emotions. Some may be taken in repetition and some are new to experience. So we choose some pain, some repentance, some anger and its consequences, some tears, some recklessness, betrayal etc. We do choose some happiness, joyfulness, celebration, party-time, soul-food, romance,, love, companionship, friends etc. We also choose our parents so that they can help us to guide in having the chosen plate.

The choices which we made at the initiation of life decide what would follow at what time. It gives us ample experience to understand the self chosen life.

Now I know that the life which I have lived was not forced upon rather I have chosen it myself with freewill. This I have done with understanding the new meanings, to know new horizons and to gain new experiences in life gain mileage in my life journey. I know that if I have to merge with God, I have to be well prepared and capable. I am happy that my friend has fulfilled my dream and relied upon me to give what I have desired. He let me chose my path and destiny to begin my onward journey. I have chosen my path and become what I always want to be. I am today what I thought at the beginning of my life.

Life never remained demand-type. It is always to give more and more. We should understand that what we have wanted is given to us. So when one feel deserted, lonely and in pain, never lose heart. Sooner this chapter of life will conclude and next chapter will commence. In the last you will be experiencing that you had chosen.

It would not be a full stop again another menu-card would be given with ample choice to choose and new dishes will appear in our plate accordingly. New tastes, new flavor and new colors will add dab to it.

All these choices make our life special and authentic. The originality of life is that the party goes at one place where we all share different note and enjoy the chosen food. So at one time one might be having chill-pill snack and other might be enjoying apple-pie. That creates different shades in environment and crowd. This world is a big party hall where we all gather to enjoy the gala party with choice of having a full plate of different dishes. So let’s enjoy the party and our plate. ‘STOP THINKING WHY & START LIVING RIGHT AWAY’

P.S. Q: What happen if we do not like chosen life and try to avoid it? 
Ans: Some people do not find their plates as good as of others. They criticized other and abused themselves. They try to dump their plate unfinished and try to grab new full plate. It is ill-practice and not acceptable to god. They are not allowed to do so. They are again sending back with same plate with same portions they took at the beginning in last life. Now imagine what would be condition of a person who has almost finish his plate of his unlike food is again served with new full portions of same food. It would be a punishment of ‘OVER-EATING’ WITH EXTRA BAGGAGE OF PREVIOUS LIFE. So whenever such unwanted emotion comes in mind, one should understand the after consequences of retreat.