This post is related with LIFE SKILLS posts : The Mantra of Good Life and The Mantra of Success ......
Dear friend in continuation of my previous posts The Mantra of Good Life and The Mantra of Success ,on demand of my readers, I am sharing another post for the progress of soul and happiness in life. The life is totally unpredictable and sometimes it gives what is not asked. A good career but no family to share the fruits, A supporting family but loss in business or losing of job, a beautiful wife but no home. we shall always remember that life do not give everything to us. Whatever we get, we pay price for it. There is no free lunch for any of us. Then how could one knows that whatever is paid and received is always a good bargain. Dear friends we must remember that any food may seem to be tasty when add with a pinch of salt, not with heavy dose of it. Anything which we give shall be like a pinch and same rule applies to success. Any one who is successful may not be happy or vice-versa. The both are two ends of a river which go simultaneously but never meet with each other but life although runs like a river but still can manage to have both end up to some extent but need for identifying the level is an important task. Ok friends let's have few points which may help in balancing the rational approach in life.
Dear friend in continuation of my previous posts The Mantra of Good Life and The Mantra of Success ,on demand of my readers, I am sharing another post for the progress of soul and happiness in life. The life is totally unpredictable and sometimes it gives what is not asked. A good career but no family to share the fruits, A supporting family but loss in business or losing of job, a beautiful wife but no home. we shall always remember that life do not give everything to us. Whatever we get, we pay price for it. There is no free lunch for any of us. Then how could one knows that whatever is paid and received is always a good bargain. Dear friends we must remember that any food may seem to be tasty when add with a pinch of salt, not with heavy dose of it. Anything which we give shall be like a pinch and same rule applies to success. Any one who is successful may not be happy or vice-versa. The both are two ends of a river which go simultaneously but never meet with each other but life although runs like a river but still can manage to have both end up to some extent but need for identifying the level is an important task. Ok friends let's have few points which may help in balancing the rational approach in life.
- Always have three types of friends: They are like an institute who walk and move.
a. Some young energetic friends- They will help you to improve your reflexes and improve your decision making. They will further help in improving your tastes and keep you update about what's happening around. They would respect you and treat you as an asset-friend.
b. Same age group friends- They have grown up with you so they know you well. They have seen you doing cheating as well as know your abilities in keeping yourself away from vices. they believe you and check you as and when they want. None of them is role model and nor you so live natural and enjoy everything.
c. Matured and successful friends- They will help you developing your skills of handling persons and providing advices. You can study them as a subject and learn a lot from them. Their positives and weak points, their temperament, their attitude and their behavior, all shall be kept under scanner of your mind.
- Think and plan in morning, Act in noon, Cherish and relish what life has given you in the evening.
- Be unique in life, Be regular in office, Be lazy in bed.
- Never be angry when you are awaken in the middle of night, you are important part of a decision making and got a say.
- It is better to quite then to speak irrelevant.
- Be quick but careful, you are on apex. As you can see a lot, a lot can see you too.
- Let your work speaks itself. You just project it well.
- Admit mistakes before pointing out by one or all.
- Be attentive and a good listener in meetings, The hearer do not participate rather obstructs.
- Body language has its language and understands by one and all.
- Have fun in parties, have work in office.Do not indulge in vice-versa at same places.
- No important person remains alone in party, found your taste before noticed by any one.
- Fulfill your dream, it includes your emotional dreams as well as professional targets.
- Sometime crying in full public view is not at all bad.
- Update your daily list of to do in afternoon so that some of tasks can be preponed.
- It is good to follow a hobby but not the addiction.
- Success touches every one but not always.
- Never have a deal with life for success, what we get is sometimes better than what we hope.
- When you are a Manager- work like a Dy. Manager, Order like a Sr. Manager and decide like a normal human being.
- Be kind, Be forgiving, Be sympathetic, above all Be good listener, when you would be retired, you would be happily remembered for these qualities.
- Laugh on your foolishness, learn from your mistakes, tell your story with mentioning your failures, you will be counted as successful.
- Humor is good positive drink. Have it whenever get it.
- Never argues with your life, it always give, sometimes a corn and sometimes a water melon.
- Every guest, visitor/customer comes with teaching a new lesson.
Above all a Guru in life never always come with long hairs, white beard, covered/ bald head or crowd of followers, he may glow in you life wearing a Tee's with cargo pents and introduce you directly to God in jeans.
Have a Happy and Successful life.
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