END OF WORLD - A myth or a fact

END OF WORLD on 21/12/2012- A myth or a fact

For the last one year I am noticing a trend among world that 2012 is the end of life for human kind and its civilization. Wherever you go wherever you see, the people are discussing it whether sitting in open or in closed circle that this world is going to end in this year. They have fixed a dead line i.e. 21/12/2012 for this. The Hollywood movies based on end of world i.e. 2012, Knowing, Deep impact, Resident evil and many more are chanting this through their mode of act and show. If you make a search on Ü Tube, Google or any search engine if you just type any relevant word to end of world, you will find thousands of sites dedicating to this stand..  Some of the religious and awakened groups are also saying so and publicising the concept.

About 2/3 months back a famous and pretty Indian ….Kumari who represents a sect’s views on TV was also explaining the situation about this end on due date. People are scared and dreaded by hearing such news. We do not want to face the death on due date.

Recently I was going through one of page/ group what I have noticed is that they are talking about the survival tips on doom’s day.  Some are taking about the theory of displacement of earth crust causing high magnitude earth quack that would send us deep in rubble. Another theory is the rising of sea level that we will be dead because of floods, storms, etc. Another vision is that we will be attacked by the energy of sun and that would become the reason for our end. Some predict alien attack for natural resources and some are expecting meteors is approaching us for hitting with power.  This what have started from the theory of Mayan calendar.  It is to believe that the Mayan calendar is being ended on 21/12/2012 so that is why the civilization is ending on this due date.

After going through such reports,  I think some people might have started giving trainings to handle this disaster. Some might be making grand from fearful innocent people.

The death if decided than it would come on due date. If people are so sure about the time of their departure than I feel that there shall be less pain and more gratitude. There shall be less taking more giving. There shall be more forgiveness than revenge. There must be more humbleness than cruelty. There must be more love than hate. But what I am noticing that people are becoming more centric than thinking about welfare. They are becoming greedy than distributing their comforts.

Apart from individual’s attitude, there might be an end to any chaos but not at least on 21/12/2012 as planned by a civilization by ending their calendar.  The ending of calendar was not ending of earth, I repeat not ending of earth but it was ending of knowledge of Mayan people. They made a calendar because they could not think beyond that. Today the humans are more open to these things. Even computers did not surrender before the chaos of 2K on 31.12.1999.

I remember while I was in school, I had heard that in 1980, we would be having 3rd world war and then lot of saying about 1984, 1992, 1999, 2002 and now a new dead line is 2012.

I am not sure whether this world be ending on 21/12/2012 as I am not a time traveller nor I intend to be but one thing I am sure that today is the best  day of our life and whatever we had dream last night, we would do efforts to achieve that.

LETS LIVE NORMAL & LIVE TODAY :)

Wish you a happy and delightful 22 December, 2012 with your loved ones... 

Welcome the Summer

Welcome the summer

Sunday, March 25, 2012 at 1:47pm ·

so summers are here and in New Delhi, they are the biggest pain and tough moments as temperature generally rises to 45+ Cel. in May and then in June the humid also occurs and that also reached to another level of 90+. I do not like summer much but with no option I have to live with this as I love this place. This time I am thinking to beat summer by indulging in certain activities.

1. I will have more fruits and raw vegetables in a shape of salad and chaat.

2. I will have more curd, water, liquids for diet.

3. I will have less spices and chili.

4. I will use more cotton for dress.

5. I will get up and finish my daily jobs before 11 am so I can relax in noons.

6. I will wear shorts, pyjamas, T-shirts, and floaters.

7. I will join swimming classes.

8. I will sleep in noons and use night time for doing necessary jobs.

9. I will use less air-conditioner ie. only keeping an ideal temp. of 25-30 cel inside.

10. I will go to nearer hill station for spending some time and for recharge.

11. I will keep short hairs.

12. I will frequently use mud( Multani Mitti) for face and body wash.

13. I will have more ice-creams.

14. I will finish my dinner before 7 pm.

15. I will beat this summer heat with my determination and positive thinking...

If you have any other ideas, plz. share.... these are urgently required....)

 

WHATEVER WE SOW, SO SHALL WE REAP.......

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About 8 yrs. back I feel like listening some good Gurbani (The preachings of Guru) and got a CD having some of good spiritual sayings mentioning about the facts of life. While hearing many of them, I heard one of the story which relates ones with consequences of past karma. That story left an impact over me and I still listen sometimes. The story goes like this:

Once there was a rich man, having very good business and among the successful man of society. He had a beautiful wife. She really takes care of him and advises him as and when he needed. They had got everything but left with one sorrow i.e. not having any child. Both of them tried to get treated from various doctors, mantriks, tantriks etc but nothing succeeded. However they had an obedient and loyal servant. He honestly kept everything on track for them i.e. from their house hold chores to all business affairs. Due to his behaviour even the rich man treated him as his nearer trustworthy. His wife also treated him equally and took care of him like a family member.  Sooner the rich man and his wife realised that they would not get any child so they started treating him as their adopted son and put some of share in the business for him. With the grace of god and good fortunes of the servant the business started flourishing and got multiplied with in span of months. The profits reached high and high that even the little share of servant gets in billions. This had raised the greediness in the rich man and his wife. They did not want the share to be given to servant. So they conspired with one of their friend who was a doctor. The rich man’s wife cooked unhealthy food for servant. Due to that the servant got sick and doctor was called. The doctor while treating him gave poisonous medicine to him. After consuming the medicine, the servant got terribly ill and subsequently died. The rich man paid some money to doctor in lieu of his help for killing the servant. After some time the wife got pregnant as well and both of them felt blessed by this, they gave a huge party to all they know. After due period, the woman gave a birth to a boy-child. The boy was very handsome and intelligent. He was provided with best life. He was taught by the best teachers. The rich man and his wife loved him very mush. Whatever the boy asked for, immediately brought for him. After some time he took care of business as well. Life was going smooth and comfortable. As he grew up the suitable proposals for marriage had started coming for him. The rich man and his wife found a suitable match for him and got him married with a beautiful girl. The marriage was a grand affair, attended by who’s of whom of society. The function/reception was gala even the king came for blessing the bride and groom. The rich man and his wife felt the luckiest ones for having such the respect, honour and popularity in the society.

Next morning as they woke up and found that their son was not well and could not got up from bed. The best known doctors were called and best treatment was given. The newly married wife forgot about her marriage and immediately started serving her husband. Despite best efforts and good spending of money was not taking anywhere and the condition was getting worsen.  Slowly with the passage of time the business started ruining and money started finishing. The rich man had to sell out his house, business, jewellery, and all house hold items for the treatment of his son. Ultimately all of them shifted to a rented hut where a day had come when they did not have anything for eating nor to pay the fees of doctors. The rich man and his wife were scared and confused. They prayed to god that what bad they had done so they were seeing such a difficult phase of their life. The son’s bride was also there as due to condition of her husband she was taken as jinx by all. She was also in pain that despite marriage she was still living a life w/o happiness. All of sudden the son who was lying on floor started laughing loudly. On seeing he laughing all of them asked about the matter. He replied that next morning he would die as time had come. On hearing that they all started weeping and asked reason for saying so. The son asked them to see his face carefully. On seeing the face the rich man and his wife got frightened as they could see their murdered servant in the face of their son. They could know that that was the time for pay back for their sin committed against their loyal and obedient servant by killing him. They tried to pacify their son not to sacrifice his life for their sin but he told them he had born with this purpose in that life. The father/ mother asked him that it was OK for him to punish them but what is the mistake of his newly wedded wife. On that he disclosed that she was the doctor in previous life that killed him. After hearing that they all became mum and had nothing to say. Next morning their son left his body for onward journey. The father/ mother/ wife became volunteers and started serving poor and needy. They put their life for service to mankind and god.

So that was the lesson of life : "WHATEVER WE SOW, SO SHALL WE REAP......." 

KUNG FU PANDA- A Character

KUNG FU PANDA- A Character

I have liked this movie very much and watched it 5/6 times with Reena and my sons. We all have liked this and sometimes had discussed it as well. “Po” the panda has left an impact over us. Yugaank- my son has even posted his picture on his FB profile. Sometimes I wonder that what this character has which makes him all favourite. The success of movie has inspired to make a sequel to this movie and it is even said that another sequel will be made too.

So this has made me to think and analyse about him. Once started I have realised that he could be one of the most admiring, encouraging and challenging character having all positive qualities  with heart of gold. It is one of the most powerful characters which tell to face the adverse with dignity. It further motivates everyone to dream, work hard and achieve even the impossible. He is not an ordinary fat panda but a true being with dedication, loyalty, friendly and selfless personality. He is truly a hard nut which cannot be crack opened. Now I would like to put examples mentioning his notable qualities.

Dreams are asset: From the initial start of his life, he always wanted to become a Dragon Warrior despite his short comings and other responsibilities. If we remember that the movie starts with his move as a Dragon Warrior however it was a dream but he continues to dream this unless and until he did not become what he had dreamt- a Dragon Warrior.

Hard work is the key:  Once he reached at the institute and was taken to pond by his Guru Shifu, he realised that if he had to fulfil his dream than regular untiring practice is the way to achieve his goal. He became complete submissive and tough learner with learning the depth of skill.  He had shown his abilities before that when the selection for DW was going on, he along with his cart reached at hill-top by stairs in complete exhaust state. This elaborates his state of mind for hard working.

To overcome the weakness: Everyone has one or another weakness and the question is how to overcome it. The panda is very fat and does not go well with his buddies. He has breathlessness in climbing. He even mocked for not able to see his foot thumb. His capability is questioned when he was chosen as DW. Sooner when he realised about these things he overcome that and become the winner.

Learning is the path for perfection: The panda is a keen learner. He learns everything from kung-fu to cooking soup. Whatever he learns he put efforts in it. It is like a close connection with heart. He never feels tired or bored from his routine and this quality helps him to win from Tai-Lung. Remember he self learns the grip of wushi finger. Such type of personality always wins in life.

Perfection is the status: “Po”- the panda knows the art of doing things with perfection. Whatever he does, he does it from the heart and put his best efforts in doing so. It is whether making soup for friends, learning the kung-fu or even mocking his teacher with putting noodle moustaches. Even stealing and eating the biscuits from kitchen was not possible w/o perfection which gave idea to his teacher to innovate the teaching technique for kung-fu.

Knowledge is power: Po has never learnt kung-fu before but he has knowledge about the arts. He even recognises the things in museum as he had been in that place before. The grip of wushi finger is self-learned as even Tai-lung was not aware about this art.

Control over the fears:  Po knew that he cannot fight with Tai-Lung but he knew that every one’s hope is over him and w/o fighting with him he cannot be called DW so he overcome his fear and challenged his worst enemy for fight.

Admiring and appreciating: How many of us admire and appreciate what around us. When chosen as DW, he was introduced to other disciples; he appreciated them for their skill. It has created a place for him in the team. It further helps him in winning his temporary opponents.

Use his opportunity as his door: when Guru chose him as DW, he did not leave this opportunity and struggled to stay at inimical place. Even his teacher Shifu is totally against him but he remained there till he gets his place to him. He uses his awakening chance to learn his dream art- kung-fu.

Peace at heart: The most important part is having peace at heart even Shifu was surprised to know this that whatever he is looking is lies with Po. It tells his way of life i.e. live normal, live today.

Love your parents: The love and affection between him and his father is example of binding with family. It has made him strong and positive and that helps him to understand the world. It further develops other qualities in him.

Last but not the least we all have inner strength to win in all situations. Only the difference is level of understanding it. The winner always remains in us so be shine in all situations.  

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UNDERSTANDING GOD in first form

Generally when a person is not having enough resources, he starts having confusion and chaos in mind. sometimes he even questions the existence of god and its role in day-to-day life. Believing in him becomes the most difficult task to perform. He relates his belief with superstition or having a fanatic view about him to relate his thought. We all know that not having enough money is curse in life. One can enjoy the good company when there is sufficient food in the stomach. Believing god is mark of faith and truth in life. Life cycles when we do have trust in ourselves. Education is basic need and hunger of human being that is why we all try to get it even sleeps empty stomach. It is the door of learning and knowing experiences.It further opens up new horizons and foresightedness.

Being human we all scare of strange things and till we know it we always fearful.Remember ignorance is bliss for those with shut mind and people who live this are most happier than those who want to learn. It is lethal combination with darkness and superstition. God is the basis of life and where we are alone, god is the key to loneliness, darkness and superstition. We all know that god never  leaves alone and surrender is the alibi to god’s existence. Faith in god does not require any evidence only ultimate surrender is the platform to reach to him. God likes children form of human beings because they are straight, away from chaos, confusion and do not have doubts. They are as simple as god. No complication nor any confusion. An adult mind needs evidence that is why One needs to keep alive the child inside oneself because only that can lead one to his best friend-god.

Always remember that giving is the quality of angels. Remaining tight w/o money and still thinking of giving is the proof of god in a beautiful mind. The god understands and always gives so there is no question of turning down the request by him. The gifts are always precious and must be accepted with grace. It involves love, respect and adoration. Only fools questions the quality of gifts otherwise Krishna even accepts the  peels of bananas and ate it with the hands of Vidur who was emotionally touched by the love of Krishna for self-inviting himself for supper at his house.

God’s presence is normal for believers and illusion for non or demi believers. Even god has to prove himself before them about his identity and god has many things to do so he has left this question to us that whether he exists or otherwise.

Remember only miracles are not the proof of his existence, keeping soul free from fear and confusion is his way of messaging us.

KARNA- The True Warrior

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Now a days I am having nice time sharing Mahabharata stories with my son Orian. He loves to listen them. So every night I have to share 2 stories with him. And when you have to share a story, Mahabharata the largest epic book in universe is best as it has many stories. So one of the story I shared with him was about "Karna" the illegitimate son of Kunti, born from Sun, brought up and named by a charioteer, known as Radhav- on her mother's name- Radha, disciple of Great Saint and Brahmin warrior Guru Parshu Ram famous for taking revenge 21 times from Kings and their united army. Karna has  every thing except a good fate and that’s brought him to his destiny by becoming friend to Prince Duryodhana. One should remember that one shall not take gift from a bad person as it might be trap for him for whole life. So story begins now.....

Once a princess "Kunti"who was beautiful and intelligent as well went to river for bathing and having some good time. There by the grace of god she was blessed with 'vardana' that she could have great sons from the persons she likes. It was a big thing for her so after having blessed with these words she immediately tried this and request SUN to bless her with a son like him. On that she immediately got conceived and gave birth to a sun. The child was shining like Sun and had gold jacket with gold ears rings (Kundala) in his ears. Now Kunti was confused because she could not take him to his palace and who would believe this story. Her reputation would be destroyed and who would marry her as  well. So she kept that child in a basket and free flowed him in the river so that he would be found by someone and taken care of. From there his destiny changed and he reached to a charioteer who found him and brought him to his house and handed over to his wife -Radha.  Radha on seeing him and adopted him as his son and called him Radhav.  Karna was very brave and wanted to become a warrior so he went for learning sword, bow and other weapons but was turned down by all. Finding no other way, he went to Guru Parshu Ram and become his disciple by lied him that he was a Brahmin  as Guru was totally against teaching other communities. He learned really well and become one of favourite of guru. Once Guru was tired and kept his head on the thigh of his disciple-Karna and slept away. Karna took care and did not move his thigh even he was bitten by a small but lethal insect. The bleeding started and by its smell the guru woke up and found that his disciple had been bitten by an insect. He doubted his identity and got angry. On clarification, Karna revealed his true identity. On knowing this   the guru cursed he that whatever he had learned from him would be forgotten at that time when he needed it most. Karna went back to his house and on knowing that the Pandavas (sons of Pandu and Kunti) have returned after completing their education with guru Drona and demonstrating it at a venue. He reached there and challenged Arjuna but on identity it was found that he is not the king's son so his challenge was turn down by Bhishama. Kunti, his real mother was also present and recognised him but could not reveal his true identity. At that time the prince Duryodhana recognised his true strength and made him king of Anga state. Karna took this honour as great asset of his life and this gift had made him slave of Duryodhana. Throughout the life Karna never betrayed him and become part and parcel of all deeds of Duryodhana. So when Dropadi humiliated Duryodhana by calling him the blind son of blind father besides Duryodhana he also took that personally and insulted Dropadi along with Duryodhana. This has created a drift between him and Arjuna. Throughout the life he lived on with one wish to defeat Arjuna in man-to-man war. That made him to wait till Mahabharat war begun. The friendship with Duryodhana made him to stand as a participant in the death of Abhimanyu-son of Arjuna. As Krishna was aware about his skills and knows that he could give Pandavas a close fight so he went to him and told him about his true identity and offered him to abandon the Kurus and to participate from Pandavas'side and as he is eldest in all hence he would become the king after the war. Karna turned down the offer and remained loyal towards Duryodhana. Even his mother Kunti went to him and asked mercy for his sons, he promised that he would not kill anyone except Arjuna so that her five sons would remain as they were. As he was known as a true donor so even Sun's advice and alerting him about visit of Indra in disguise of  Sadhu, he removed his birth gold jacket, ear rings and gold tooth and donated to sage who become so emotional that he blessed him and gifted him "SHAKTI" weapon. During the war he showed braveness and killed Ghatochkaksha-son of Bhima. While in war when the wheel of his chariot stricken in hollow land and despite horses ‘strength the same was not pulled back, he went down to make it moved and while getting down left his bow in the chariot and was killed at that time by Arjuna who was reminded by Krishna about the death of Abhimanyu and role of Karna in it and that angered him and become the reason for the death of Karna.

Throughout the life Karna was never remained negative but the price of living with bad company was paid by him.

That is why I have said that one shall not accept the  gift form bad people, one never knows that what could be the price of that????

Pandavas never came to knew about the true identity of Karna, for them he was always a son of charioteer who was below than their status.

Self Realisation

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Arun I have another question for you:)

Why when you try to make somebody happy he is running away even that he likes all that you do?Are such a lot of things that I still don't understand...:((

Human being enjoys being part and parcel of privileged ones.Sometimes in life we all act funny just to pretend. At that times we do such things which we generally do not do nor associated with us.  We become what we are not when we try to remain outside of ourselves. Such things lead us to illusion and blind folded us. When we realise that we can live on w/o such things we act free and act in self importance. At that time such thing becomes a petty issue for us. We take care of such thing which we feel important at our heart. We normally ignore what is existed in normal routine and try to keep in pocket as keeping change. Just think what had happened  and why you had allowed yourself to get hurt.  Remember friends do not hurt and some one who hurts is not the friend…. It is better to take your path and moved to self destiny than to follow some one who is not aware about his own direction. Know your worth, identify yourself. You can be happy with any one / anything if you are happy with yourself. The source is in you. Feel importance, express happiness and gratitude in what ever you are. No one is as perfect as one wants to be. Even God has made this world with lots of all energy and some of them are cited as negative as well so know yourself and live on none other than self.

Live Normal - Live Happily

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                              "Live Normal - Live Happily "

Why happiness is only a dream for the ones who are waiting for it with open heart? -asked by my FB friend ....

Happiness is state of mind which comes from unexpected positive results. It has an impact over the people with positive note. It is acceptance of your emotions. It is result get through your emotional  tie-ups. It is a dream can be seen through open eyes and in awaken state. Most of the times things happened in a manner which suits us. It gives a feeling of emotional stability as well as that we are working in right direction. One can be happy externally but sad inner or vice-verse. When we are happy externally and rejoice inner that is the ideal state of happiness but unfortunately it does not happen every time. Sometimes the things worked according to our choice but left us feel disheartened cos at that time we are calculating the sacrifices done for this happiness and prices are seems to be high in accordance with our happiness. In that situation the happiness becomes impossible for sharing or just a dream. We all know that some of the things like celebration, happiness, become double if divided among friends. But an impossible happiness becomes a distant dream with unending waiting. The facts in question deter us to celebrate it and the joy of happiness fades with the passage of time. The open heart accepts everything and questions nothing. It shares everything without thinking twice. It values whatever we have in hand and does not wait for what future holds for us. I believe that we should not wait for things to happen in future life and start enjoying them today at this particular moment. I call it “LIVE NORMAL”.

COFFEE TABLE THOUGHTS

COFFEE TABLE THOUGHTS

 

by Arun Sharma on Monday, January 9, 2012 at 9:50pm

Last evening while sitting in Costa Coffee at University Campus with Orian and Reena, I have realised that being short temper is biggest and worst enemy of life. Love can be ignored for sometime but the anger causes worst loss to life and that may resulted in losing one's gr8est asset of life. The precious things can be lost and some of the things, while one possesses may deserve better than oneself who owns that, might lost because of anger and short sight. May be tomorrow one realises the loss occurred by this foolishness but that can not be reversed as time slips like the sand. Some times some gets what they do not value nor understand.... so my friend be careful with your worst enemy (ANGER) , it may leave you alone and broken.... The tears which do not slip out of eyes are to be taken care of... At least you have some one who cares and weeps silently for you. Do not wear a mask at that time, hold him/her tight, the moment will live forever.... Love will cherish... In the last only Love will live....

December 1, 2011 near New Delhi

Today while sitting in Costa coffee cafe with Reena , situated near DU campus, we were discussing while looking at students that these 3/4 yrs of their life will make an overall impact over their life and its journey. It would decide their fate and karma as well as destination. These yrs will never come back and each moment will explain them their position and stability in their future life. This is a choice, hope they would understand this... Then I analysed my life in nut shell and feel that the education, reading and learning have played an important role in my life. I am thankful to my school/ Institute for educating me otherwise I would have not achieved what I have got...... Thank you God for this...))

A Right Moment

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Spending time with your choice of people is an achievement and mark of success. The choices which we make tell about the state of mind in that scenario. Staying in the world which has different type of shades and people, we are given lessons by many and some of them are very unique in nature and human behaviour. Pain lies in all of us and we are the product of pain caused in phases of life. Some of the pain tells us to let live and forget and some makes us what we today. The source of pain varies and sometimes it is stronger than us thus changes the shapes of our surroundings. Listening is great pleasure as well test of temperament. It creates curiosity in mind and sometimes it is at a degree where it can not be ignored. There is no difference between a sober and boozer rather it is difficult to handle a sober man in long run. Revealing the feelings needs big courage as well as acceptance to your own shortcomings. It is repentance or love but the realisation is such a strong that makes us bearable and welcome. It is easy to share feeling with strangers at least they would not preach nor aware about your shortcomings . :) . The right moment in life if chosen never be existed. Every moment is right and waited upon long enough and woven with golden thread. It may be sorrow or happiness, love or hate, joy or anger reaches to us with new meaning to tell. The right moment for these feelings is the moment when we are ready to accept it and my friend that moment never exists…:)

LIFE PATH

             We all feel in our life that if on that day I had taken the choice which I did not follow I might reach at better than this place where I am now but I feel that whatever was chosen for me is best. And I cannot be at other place except I am at now… life always chooses best for a person.
             Nothing is permanent in this world. We all have an age to live and then merge with something unseen and unknown. This unknown is our true identity and greater part of our soul. The process of transformation and meeting with super soul is untiring journey of self and divine.
             Respecting your choice, decision and ground is respecting yourself. It shows your own trust in self determination of choices we made. Life always chooses best for us and there is no place for repentance. These all tools are like emotions and thoughts – part and parcel of one’s life. While going on life cycle we all think to do the same without realizing that a walk is only enjoyable when we carry the limited stuff with us. If we carry all the emotions i.e. sorrow, pain, agony, anger, revenge, anxiety, etc. with us in larger quantity than we will not able to travel. The gait would be slowed due to above factors. We would try to look for someone to help us and then would blame him/her for our failures. We would not learn the lesson as we would not enjoy the beauty of life at our halting stations. We would be in hurry to complete the journey without evaluating the lesson of life. Later on when we will be back from life and told to share the experiences of life, we would describe the failures occurred due to interference of others. We would mention about the lost and missed experiences. We would curse our creator for giving us a useless life. Life could be easy and better if luggage is limited and easy to carry. Everyone has his own limitations of handling emotions. We should know that and never try to cross that as well otherwise the purpose of journey will be vain.
                 No one is bigger or smaller and nothing can hurt a person unless he himself wants it to be happened. Admitting and rectifying mistakes are qualities of a man and matter of pride so if something is left behind, go back and rectify it before it is too late.
                Respect your heart and it would follow you everywhere. Cherish it with sweet memories, make it happy with laugh and joys and it would look after you as well.
                Some of the tasks are reassigned and to check what have you learned from them. Take them with courage and do it with skill.
It is good to discuss and move forward with your own decisions and motivation. The life is yours and chosen from the menu card by none other than you. Relish its taste and variety.
                Just thinking if difficulties come into our way we tried to change everything that could be reason for it… we would like our life to be full of joys and fun… but how long u can stay in fun park/ discotheque/ dance club ultimately u come to your place where life is simple like a pajamas and T- Shirt because you feel comfortable… life should be in ordinary course of nature having all tastes that make sense to our existence… even god when lived like humans had all sorrows and pains to comprehend human nature n life…. they lived like that just to assure us that even human can reach and understand true sense of one being….. Seeing is not sufficient to comprehend,  we must feel it…… that is the true essence of life….. The real truth…. simple one….
Life is a mirror, the way we see the way it shows. Tell yourself you are beautiful than all the music play with great sound. Love yourself, be with yourself and you will never feel alone.

              In the last i would like recite the prayer to my God: O my guide, You know…The place where I will receive peace is main sea of high tides…..But I am looking a friend who will help me to get stable in high tides of sea , That person will be my true friend…O my guide , Help me to find such a friend (YOU) , That I am looking for..

HAPPY READING AND BEST WISHES ON NEW YEAR 2012

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GOD'S HAND

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The born artists, writers, composers, musician and likewise are occupations of God. They make people happy, joyful and complete and this is done by chosen ones. If one is chosen than one must thank his stars and God for choosing oneself for this service. It is well said that the artist always sleep half-filled stomach cause if his hunger for body is fulfilled than he would not think about the god’s wishes, he would burp and sleep.:) Sharing good things of life is god’s blessings and specially when someone is a good listener than sharing becomes a full time dream job and one never feels tired or bored with assigned work.
 

Understanding the God is prized possession of one’s life. Knowing his world is his faith in one self. sometimes we when remain in chaos/ confusion and feel neglected by god. If one understands the neither feeling of being one in context with God than there would not be any confusion/chaos or feeling of ignored.
Playing God is every human ‘s dream but one must understand that the big powers in life bring big responsibilities as well [ if someone wants to see plz. watch the movie Bruce Almighty] Visiting an institution of learning is paying back by your good karma's. Watching and meeting your mentors understands the worth of good karma's that means now you are not alone. Getting education through the best mentors is like meeting your angel who would take you to your best friend i.e. God. The welcoming by them is having the feast of knowledge with unlimited food and hunger. It is never ending enjoyment.
 

We all have to merge with super soul i.e. God but remember good souls merge easily with him w/o fewer efforts with smooth traveling and untiring attitude. The God always notices us and take the right time decision when we need him the most. We must wait for him but simultaneously walk on assigned path w/o questioning as we ourselves have chosen this path to understand and know the lesson of life. The surrender before him is always a feeling of freedom and weightless.
 

Living life in simple note is ‘live normal’.
 

We all are humans made of flesh and bone and we all feel worries/ confusion/ uncertainties. We sometime feel that this might the time when we have to do to get noticed so we start putting our efforts on false note that time is very crucial in our life because that is the time when we are going to meet for whom we had waited a long in life – God. God is as simple as child. He laughs when we laugh and cry when we cry. So it is the time to celebrate and make him feel happy. For that we don’t have to much just welcome him in first degree of happiness and delightful state of mind. The aura for him is the same and that will mix with his own aura.
 

In return we will see the most awaited picture /image of god so near to us that would be like meeting of souls. This will not the miracle but become routine of one’s life and would occur on each and every moment of life.
 

With this note I would like to wish to remind you all that the Xmas is coming and again lots of celebration, joys, happiness and rejoices. We all will celebrate the coziness of relations with our loved ones while sitting inside our houses. The markets would be full of crowd and lots of cheering. Kids will be playing with new toys and they will again wait for their SANTA CLAUSE who will  bring gifts for us. I know Santa that you really love us that is why every Xmas you bring gifts to us while traveling in cold winter night. This is your love and affection for us that you never feel tired nor bored for doing this task. I may only say that We love you as much and reciprocate your good lovely feelings for us. We recognize your effort and will certainly share your stories with our future generations. You have make us understood the meaning of role of our parents, elders in our respective life. You have always make us believe that love means giving and caring.   'MERRY X MAS' and may SANTA this year again brings lots of happy and delightful moments with love for you and your loved ones. I always wait for Santa and this year too I am eagerly waiting to visit me and brings all good wishes and gifts of God to me. I know that being SANTA, you always have to work hard and whole night to carry and to keep gifts at our beds w/o disturbing our sleep. You care for us and WE LOVE YOU…… for your kindness …thank you once again and yes we are waiting for you....love and hugs.... Amen

FAREWELL MY FRIEND...

Just came back after having Tibetan/Chinese food from a joint called "SPOT". It is next to church on DBG rd, New Delhi . This is the place where from I have started eating Tibetan food. My first Tibetan food was cooked here while I was in University. This is the place where I had first time tried eating chicken in noodles  and in clear soup. It was very small and self service one having 2/3 tables with long chairs. After some time it was expanded and space was added now it has become little bit comfortable and the best food was cooked and served. After some time I got busy with other things and shifted little far from here. Started having food at Madhu Bans near IP College-DU, Bercos, Monestry market, MOETS at Civil lines, Yashwant Market-Chankya Cinema, Golden Dragon-Panchsheel, South Delhi, The Rice bowl in Mussorie, Roof Top in McLeod Ganj, Wok & Roll -Bielefeld, Germany wherever I went for my assignment tried food there only... Once I tried in Sarajevo as well as it was Chinese food restaurant near Novo Sarajevo IPTF... I think It was Peking?? something... I tried Tokyo restaurant at Ashoka as well but Spot remained my favorite. I introduced it with Reena as well as with my sons. But for the last 2/3 visits I was feeling The food was not getting as tasty as it used to be. The whole taste is of salt and only salt in everything. I requested to improve it but I think the cook is good at salt cooking nothing else now. Tonight we went on the saying of my son Priynk who is on holidays from his school/institute... we ordered for some dishes but no improvement so today Reena has suggested that now the days are over and we should either cook ourselves( She cooks really good) or try to find some other place. Chopsey was awful, noodles were broken, Manchurian was full of salt and rolls were cold enough, mineral water was some local cheap brand..... so what I can say now..

"Dear "SPOT", We had a very good time together till we were walking on the same path and sharing good memories.... now our ways are taking us to different directions so take care and RIP.........Amen..."

MY BLESSING DAY....

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MY BLESSING DAY....

by Arun Sharma on Tuesday, December 6, 2011 at 11:03am

The prayer is a tune to sing about love and faith in a person/ almighty. In this life we keep several belongings till our death day come. It may be dozens of clothes, shoes, costly watches, pens, books and many luxury material items to show our earthly possession. When we die we will have no choice as these things could be taken away on first instance. So I ask my god to let me carry a token of love and faith in him as my last bodily possessions. We all have a day which is not our own day…the day belongs to almighty when we realize about the lived life in a day, in a nut -shell..this day the almighty reminds us to remember each and every karma of our life. The karma which makes an impact over the other as well as on us. Whatever done with one may change the fate / thinking of oneself. What a strange thing this day is being mentioned by everyone as a curse day or suffering day. People use to curse by mention or making one remember that that day one would face the punishment of one’s life and sins be paid off. I would like to take this day as blessing day of my life and after life.

Life’s Lesson

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We should always remember that life’s lesson never come free.

Working hard is human’s nature and opportunity given to us by the god to keep ourselves busy with the daily karma's of life. This power which only human has as god is free from this. Charity is related with soul and soul speaks or does what it feels or understood. Testing as acid is godly way of perfection. The more you suffer the more you learn. It is life lesson to all and no one is spared.

The visit of friend is like a knocking of god to know that you are doing OK and in perfect shape. The concern of friend is like the speaking by karma to you. Nothing is as pious as soul and soul is connected with spirituality in basic form hence the soul does not keep nor maintain account of good deeds.

The humans are raw and unfinished products of god. They are not perfect nor properly built up. There is many deficiencies in human i.e. anger, pain, sorrow, anxiety, crying’s, cruelty, violence, wrong decision makings, recklessness etc. That is why we all sent to earth so that the feelings which encounter us on every turn shall become calm and we should understand that life has brought this to make us perfect. The whole issue of perfectness brings best in us. The process remain continue through rein carnation or re-birth till the perfect comes out in us.

Being human beings and weak source of energy, we try to reverse the process as we feel that we are not able to go through the pain and sufferings which are to be come in the life. We resist and try to become unfit for going through this phase without understanding that the life than be full of garbage and waste. But the comforts and short success come in between and hijack the motive of life. It is rather the hijacking of god’s will. But we feel so happy with ephemeral success that we think or take it as actual life. Again the whole cycle is knitted so the circumstances that leads us to darkness and procuring the humanity from its basic start can revive and we could be again sent to same factory of life and its rebirths.